me and the suspect

me: do you remenber the people who have loved you and made sacrifices for you or to be with you? i heard something disturbing today, doesnt matter what it was and it hit me that i should cherish

the suspect: i do. i remember many things about love and being loved. sometimes i'm silly about things like that, other times i enjoy love and loving

me: i'm not talking about cherishing you. idiot.

i'm talking about cherishing the people around me

and that was how i was totally cured of being disturbed by what i heard. what is it about the chinese saying that goes soomething like- to untie a knot you have to get the person who tied it.

bingo